Neelam Kothari Finally Addresses Relationship Rumours with Govinda: ‘In Those Days We Were…’
For decades, the chemistry between Govinda and Neelam Kothari on screen captivated audiences, sparking rumours of a romance off-screen. While Govinda openly professed his admiration for Neelam during the 1990s, the actress had always remained tight-lipped. Now, Neelam has finally broken her silence on these longstanding rumours.
In a candid conversation with Hauterfly, Neelam addressed the speculation, stating, “I think link-ups were part of the whole game. There was no one to clarify. They just printed whatever they felt like, and to be honest, I feel like in those days we were scared of the press. It was the power of the pen, and it was just part of it. If you did more than two or three films, it was just understood that… (you were dating).”
The Origins of the Rumours
The whispers of a romantic connection between the two stars began when Govinda, in a 1990 interview with Stardust, expressed his deep admiration for Neelam. At the time, Govinda confessed, “I wanted to marry her. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.”
The actor even recalled moments of conflict with his now-wife, Sunita Ahuja, during their engagement. Govinda admitted to pressuring Sunita to change and emulate Neelam’s personality, going as far as to suggest she leave him. This candid revelation fuelled the narrative that Govinda’s feelings for Neelam went beyond professional admiration.
However, Neelam has consistently refrained from addressing these speculations—until now. Her recent comments imply that the rumoured romance may have been exaggerated by media sensationalism of the time.
A Journey Through Stardom
Neelam Kothari was a celebrated actress in the late ’80s and ’90s, known for her charm and elegance. After her debut in 1985, she starred in over 30 films, including hits like “Hum Saath Saath Hain” alongside Salman Khan.
By the late ’90s, Neelam stepped away from films to focus on her thriving jewellery business. However, her return to showbiz in recent years, first with Netflix’s reality show “Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives” and later with an episode of “Made in Heaven”, has reignited public interest in her career and personal life.
Govinda, once heralded as a superstar of Bollywood, also ruled the industry during the same era. Known for his impeccable comic timing and iconic dance moves, he enjoyed massive success with films like “Coolie No. 1” and “Hero No. 1”. Unfortunately, his attempts at a comeback in recent years have largely failed at the box office.
Separate Lives
Both stars have moved on in their personal lives. Govinda has been married to Sunita Ahuja since 1987, and the couple shares two children. Neelam, on the other hand, is happily married to actor Samir Soni, and the pair are proud parents to their daughter.
Govinda recently made headlines after a freak accident where he accidentally shot himself in the knee with his own gun. Thankfully, the actor is on the road to recovery.
A Reflection on Old Rumours
Neelam’s remarks shed light on the intense media scrutiny of the ‘90s, where stories were often created and circulated without the subjects’ input. The actress explained how baseless assumptions were common, especially when co-stars worked together in multiple films.
While fans may have wished for the onscreen chemistry between Govinda and Neelam to translate into real-life romance, her clarification puts an end to decades of speculation.
A Legacy of Timeless Onscreen Pairing
Govinda and Neelam may never have been romantically involved, but their on-screen partnership remains iconic. From light-hearted comedies to heartfelt dramas, their films continue to be celebrated by fans of Bollywood’s golden era.
As both stars focus on their families and personal lives, their enduring appeal as one of Bollywood’s most beloved pairs remains unchallenged.